July 21, 2018

I listened to a very interesting podcast at work last night. I really want to talk about it…even though it kinda freaks me out as much as it intrigues me.

I listened to a podcast episode that talks about dating from the perspectives of three

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different people in my age group. All three had different perspectives including being mostly uninterested in dating, interested but having poor luck, and being in a long term relationship. One revolving message that kept coming up was this feeling of “of course.” If you’re in a relationship with the person you’re meant to be with, “of course” you’re going to get married. The idea of not being with them would be absolutely ridiculous. I reflected a lot on that with my own relationship with Derek. It’s interesting to me because I’ve felt that feeling of “of course” from extremely early on in our relationship…but I honestly don’t think he’s as…”of course” as I am. I don’t really feel like I’m speaking from a point of insecurity right now. It just seems to be that way since I tend to put more effort into the relationship, planning special dates, I want sex way more, I value communicating every day and having deeper conversations far more than he does. And I’m not really sure what I should do with that information.

I guess the only thing anyone can do is enjoy the relationship for what it is – as long as it’s enjoyable (which I obviously am haha). And see where it does lol. That’s all for now because I need to sleeeeeeeep

 

 

 

 

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